Q: My question is about erectile dysfunction. My wife really turns me on, but I always lose my erections.
When I lose it, I have trouble getting another one. Often we do not finish because of my problem, and I get frustrated. She has a strong sex drive and gets frustrated, too. At times I give her excuses. She thinks I do not want to be with her. I'm just afraid of failing.
My wife would never cheat on me, but I don't want to frustrate her more, so she considers it. Is there anything over the counter that would help?
A: You and 18 million other American men suffer from erectile dysfunction (ED). It is nothing to be ashamed of.
There are several medications that can help, but none is available without a prescription. When you see your doctor, make sure he checks your hormone and cholesterol levels. Sometimes ED can be a symptom of cardiovascular problems.
Drugs such as Viagra, Cialis or Levitra might help, but are by no means the only solution. Your physician may prescribe another kind of medicine or even suggest a vacuum device that might help you maintain your erection.
A qualified sex therapist also can provide you and your wife with useful advice. Open communication will help her understand what you are going through.
Q: I have been taking Zetia for four months with dramatic results. My cholesterol count dropped from 240 to 183.
I am thrilled, but I have noticed pain in my legs. It is difficult to sleep as I massage them to make them feel better. The soreness and tiredness remind me of pain after strenuous exercise like running.
I would not agree to take statin drugs to correct my high LDL and low HDL levels because I know statin drugs can cause leg pain. Isn't Zetia different?
A. Zetia (ezetimibe) works differently from statin drugs such as Lipitor or Zocor. It interferes with absorption of cholesterol from the intestines. People taking Zetia sometimes report muscle or joint pain. Let your doctor know. |
